What sorts of questions can I ask in my letter?

Try holding back slightly when speaking with her. Be polite and give her the opportunity to either carry the conversation or navigate the conversation to something she is more interested...

I'm not fond of the questions approach if it's the first time you two have talked. It's just a little cliché and boring. I actually prefer statements. Say something about...

Make sure that the setting and tone of your date fit that type of conversation, as you don't want to come off as creepy. If you're okay with moving the...

"Where did God come from?" and "Why does God allow suffering?" are two very common questions.

Asking your penpal questions gives you the opportunity to learn about their life, their home, etc. It also gives you something to talk about in your letters to each other.

Ask her several questions and tell her anything interesting that happened to you.

If they're asking you questions about work, unfortunately you have to listen and answer them. If they're asking you personal or other non-work related questions, it's time to simply be...

Just ask the person how they're doing and how they're feeling. Usually, people will open up and carry on the conversation.

Ask them about their plans for the weekend or how they plan on spending their summer. Let the conversation flow organically as you get to know them. Consider asking questions...

Be calm and casual. Think about each person's motives. If someone looks suspicious, shifty eyes, stammering, etc., question them more.