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Try taking the focus off of pleasing others and instead be more curious about what is in it for you to gain their approval. How is doing what they want contributing to your life? Know that every time you put someone else first, there is a cost to you. Don't be afraid to pull back and tell someone no or that you've changed your mind. Finding the right balance is really about learning how to trust your gut. Are you genuinely excited to help someone out or is it forced?